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See What Our Clients Are Saying…
One of the Best Decisions You’ll Ever Make…
“Working with Kolton to overcome porn in my life was probably the best decision I’ve ever made, after getting baptized, and I don’t say that lightly. I was on the fence about doing it at first; it is an investment of time and money, and I prayerfully and thoughtfully considered it. This opportunity provided accountability, understanding, support, and grace when I needed it most. For example, during one of the sessions with Kolton, we explored some of the most hidden parts of my story. I honestly thought there were things I had done that I would never tell another soul and would feel condemnation about for the rest of my life. Through Kolton and this community, God made His grace, forgiveness, and love manifest more tangibly than I have often experienced. And as a result, I have been living porn-free ever since. I know some of the other reviews mention this, but if you’re on the fence, just do it! You won’t regret it. It’s not a quick fix or end all be all; there are still moments we’re all tempted, but I now have the community, confidence, and capability needed to stand firm.”
This Work Has Changed My Life…
“As someone who has participated in ineffective recovery courses in the past, I came across Reclaimed with a dose of skepticism and doubt about what would actually change in my life “this time around.” Maybe, reading this review, this is where you are too. Despite those doubts, I decided to give working with Kolton a shot based off the testimonies of a few close friends of mine. Basically, what this offered me from week 1 was a new, redeemed mindset. The nature of sexual sin often had me looking over my shoulder, regretting my actions of yesterday, but, by focusing on breaking down lies that told myself about my self-worth and building on the actual truth of the gospel, Reclaimed helped me to look forward with a new perspective. For the first time in a long time, I can say that I’m genuinely excited about moving my life forward and getting after some of my goals.”
I Would Recommend Reclaimed to My Friends Who Struggle…
“My time working through the Reclaimed Recovery journey equipped me with the knowledge and tools I needed to finally fight back effectively in my struggle with pornography. Other resources (books, filters, etc.) that I have used in the past felt like “Band-Aid” fixes, and the problem with a Band-Aid is that it eventually just falls off. There is more to overcoming porn than filters and good intentions. This course made me realize that, unfortunately, my brain has been hijacked and twisted to think about and desire this stuff for reasons I had never considered. The reason Reclaimed helped me more than anything else up to this point is because it is based on digging deep to the heart of the struggle and building a foundation and battle plan from the ground up. You have to name your demons, look them in the eye, confess them to others, and outline how you are going to fight back. And that is definitely not to say it is easy, because it is not. It will challenge you in ways you haven’t thought or wanted to challenge yourself. But honestly that is the only way we grow and get better. I would recommend Reclaimed to any one of my friends in the middle of this struggle. The course was professional, but also highly personal, and flexible to my busy schedule. Fighting back against pornography in the future takes commitment and investment in the present. If you knew that five years from now, you could be much more equipped and confident to fight back against pornography than you are now, what would that be worth to you right now? I do not think that anyone should hesitate to invest financial resources into strengthening their future self for battle against pornography. I’m thankful that I did, even though my finances are tight just like everyone’s finances. I am much more confident that I have the knowledge and resources to overcome this completely moving forward, which is not something I was able to say before taking part in the course!”
Uncover the Root Issues of the Heart…
“I was reluctant to join Reclaimed, but am thankful each day that I joined! I was convinced that my own plan to lasting sobriety was just as good as anything this guy had to offer. So why not save some money and do it my way? I was going to CR, using accountability groups, content filters on my devices, etc. You name it, I was doing it. However, I had a friend who wanted to do it and wanted someone to do it with so I ultimately decided to do it. How thankful I am that he wanted to do it! Kolton does a great job at guiding and preparing you for lasting recovery. Helping uncover the root issues of the heart and building a close knit community to take accountability to the next level.”
God is Doing Something Amazing…
“I highly recommend this for anyone who is sick and tired of living in a cycle of sin, shame, repentance, and feeling like you are not living out God’s plan for your life. This was the place I found myself for 10+ years. I had head knowledge that God loved me, but I could never accept it in my hear because I kept sinning with pornography. And I carried this guilt and insecurity into my marriage, around my kids, and at work. After seeing two therapists, joining accountability groups, installing software on all my devices, I still could not break free from my unwanted porn habit. Nothing seemed to work, and I finally reached a point where I had to decide if I was willing to keep fighting or give up. At that time a friend of mine was telling me about Reclaimed and how he thought it might finally be the opportunity for me to draw a line in the sand. I did have my doubts at first, especially around the financial investment. I had already spent thousands of dollars trying to beat this but to no avail. However, after researching other programs, I realized that it was worth the money because of the personalized coaching you receive in addition to the opportunity to join a community of men who are journeying together. Working together with Kolton was exactly what I needed. I was able to slow down and be curious about how the porn habit developed. I realized that my struggle was not all my fault, and that my heart was turning to porn for a reason. After completing this journey with Kolton my spiritual life is completely revitalized. I am connecting with Jesus daily and learning to live in my identity as a son of God. My marriage, while not perfect, has really changed for the better. Before Reclaimed, when we struggled with a lack of intimacy, I would carry resentment and take things into my own hands. Now I realize she is on her own journey, and that through prayer, God CAN work miracles. My advice for anyone jumping into this: just do it! God is doing something amazing through Reclaimed.”
Please, Give This Experience a Try…
“Trust me when I say that I had tried thing after thing, group after group, prayer after prayer, and I could never seem to remove this from my life. But in my work with Kolton we went way deeper than just talking about the issue, we talk about the desires of our heart, we talk about our past and history of our lives, we talk about the science, and we holistically look to find solutions for our personal selves and our peers in the group. We go DEEP. Please give this experience a try. You will not regret it. I could not thank reclaimed, the main coach/mentor Kolton, and my “reforging” partner enough for helping me through this struggle and collectively conquering it together.”
Reclaimed Has Shed a Light On Who I Truly Am…
“When it comes from freedom from porn and from lust, there is no simple answer. A one-step process just doesn’t do the trick if you have been struggling for years; half of my life in my case. However, going through the Reclaimed program has given me hope that I can change, and that I can be the man and the servant of God that I was made to be. By taking action weekly and digging deeply into what has brought me to this point in my life, Reclaimed has shed light on who I truly am, what I truly want, and has given me insight in the ways I can take steps to get there. By combining divine purpose with relevant life lessons, Reclaimed has given me a new approach to handling this issue of lust in my life. Though it is a difficult process, it is a worthwhile one.”
An Effective Strategy for Redeeming Brokeness…
“Reclaimed offers an effective strategy to help men redeem their brokenness and restore their God-given purpose. The personal coaching, action-oriented steps, and healthy accountability are a great balance to help me stay focused on Jesus and be confident in my future.”
Freedom Through Reclaimed…
“I am so happy I made the choice to invest in myself and work with Kolton. Through Reclaimed I not only found how to have freedom from porn, but also how to address the deep underlying issues. I loved how we took the time to shift our mindset and learn who we truly are in Christ. The deeper heart focused work coupled with practical tips, ideas, and strategies was life changing.”
The Reclaimed 10-Week journey
Are you feeling exhausted from battling against lust and pornography? Are you ready to take action, get results in your recovery, and outgrow porn? Our signature Reclaimed 10-Week Journey Coaching Course is designed to help you breakthrough by providing you with personalized coaching from an experienced professional, 10-Weeks of high-value video content and exercises, and a group of like-minded men to journey alongside and build community. If you’re ready to make an investment that will rewire your brain and reclaim your heart, click the button below to fill out a quick application form and schedule a call with someone on our team today.
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Been struggling with porn off and on for years? These 5 mental shifts could be a game-changer. In this book, you’ll discover:
1. The strategy men of faith are using to take significant strides forward in their journey to find lasting freedom from porn, even when they’ve tried everything else but still continue to ‘slip’ and ‘relapse’.
2. The reason why willpower, counting days, accountability partners, and filters alone are not an effective strategy and how you can take a different approach to restore your faith in recovery.
3. How to reduce the heavy burden of shame, secrecy, and isolation you’ve felt while discovering what it will take to look into your future 5, 10, and 20 years from now with certainty that you’ll never come back to porn again.
4. How men are rewiring their brains while learning to reconnect with their faith, porn-free identity, and purpose.
5. And… how to do all of this while reclaiming intimacy with others and a sense of peace in your life you likely haven’t felt in years.
About Kolton
Hi, I’m Kolton Thomas and I’m the founder of Reclaimed Recovery and host of the ‘Reclaimed and Unashamed’ podcast. I founded Reclaimed in 2020 so that I could pursue my passion of helping men find freedom and healing from unwanted sexual behaviors and pornography use.
Before starting my coaching/counseling journey, I spent more than 10 years volunteering for various non-profit organizations where I experienced working with foster youth, victims of human trafficking, and marginalized people living in poverty, including development efforts in Haiti. From these experiences, I developed a passion for walking alongside hurting people to support them in their journey to overcome hardship and find holistic healing. I also thru-hiked the Appalachian Trail by walking over 2,200 miles from Georgia to Maine. What I learned is that a 3-month break from technology can help but if root problems are not addressed, porn use will continue until we examine the deep issues of the heart, heal the wounds we’ve carried with us since childhood, and find a community of like minded men who walk this journey alongside us.
What I love in my work coaching men is helping them get to the root of their problems so that they can undergo a deep transformation that lasts (rather than simply undergoing surface-level behavioral change). This is why I founded the Reclaimed 10-Week Journey and became certified as an Inner Child Recovery Specialist so that I could guide clients through the Inner Child Recovery Process, based on Dr. Eddie Capparucci’s book, Going Deeper: Understanding How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction.
I am married to my lovely wife since 2021, and we try to take full advantage of being in the natural state, getting outside together as much as possible. Fun facts about us: we occasionally like to fly fish together, we own an old dodge van we like to take trips in, and we attend a local inner city church where we enjoy working with the diversity and serving the community.