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Inner Child Recovery Process
Hello and welcome to the ICRP (Inner Child Recovery Process). My name is Kolton Thomas. I’m a licensed therapist and I’m trained as an Inner Child Recovery Specialist by Dr. Eddie Capparucci, author of Going Deeper: Understanding How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction. Session fees are $200 for the first session and $175 for every session after. When you’re ready for one-on-one coaching that utilizes the ICRP framework, you can simply click the ‘BOOK AN APPOINTMENT’ button above to schedule a time for our first meeting and get started.
Core Principles From the Inner Child Recovery Process…
Gather Insights
Connect with the Inner Child, identify negative narratives, process traumas.
Identify Triggers
Identify core emotional triggers and learn the six steps for managing them.
Practice mindfulness
Understand mindfulness and learn how you can increase your emotional IQ.
Recognize Blind Spots
See clearly the things that are holding you back and make an action plan to address them.
How It Works
Get Started
To get started, you can click the ‘book an appointment’ button at the top of this page and it will direct you to a calendar where you can schedule your first session. After your appointment is scheduled, you will be redirected to an intake form you can fill out so that I can get to know you better before beginning our first session. After you have taken these steps, Kolton will send you a follow up email where you will make your initial payment and sign a consent form to be completed before your first session.
Gather Insights
During your initial session(s), we will be gathering information from you and your childhood so that we can begin gathering insights. This is where we look carefully at the inner child types from the Going Deeper book and help you connect with the types that fit you and your story best. The length of time that this part of the process requires depends on several factors. For example, it depends on your ability to recall past events from your childhood, your experience with practicing mindfulness and self-awareness, as well as the amount of work you can put into your recovery outside of sessions. Some clients will move faster through the process than others, but it’s important not to rush things and to recognize that going through the process at a slower pace is healthy and what is needed for some individuals.
Get Results
As insights are being gathered, you will begin to experience progress as we connect the dots between your childhood and your unwanted behaviors. We will take the insights and self-awareness you’ve gained and help you learn how to manage your emotional triggers. We will also help you to see certain blind spots in your life and help you on your path to overcome them. The goal here is not just to help heal and manage your sexual behaviors, but also to restore your relationships holistically with self, others, and God. As we begin to see results, we will evaluate your progress on a session-by-session basis until you are at a place where you can manage your inner child and consistently stay at least one step ahead of your addiction.
What My Clients Are Saying…
One of the Best Decisions You’ll Ever Make…
“Working with Kolton to overcome porn in my life was probably the best decision I’ve ever made, after getting baptized, and I don’t say that lightly. I was on the fence about doing it at first; it is an investment of time and money, and I prayerfully and thoughtfully considered it. This opportunity provided accountability, understanding, support, and grace when I needed it most. For example, during one of the sessions with Kolton, we explored some of the most hidden parts of my story. I honestly thought there were things I had done that I would never tell another soul and would feel condemnation about for the rest of my life. Through Kolton and this community, God made His grace, forgiveness, and love manifest more tangibly than I have often experienced. And as a result, I have been living porn-free ever since. I know some of the other reviews mention this, but if you’re on the fence, just do it! You won’t regret it. It’s not a quick fix or end all be all; there are still moments we’re all tempted, but I now have the community, confidence, and capability needed to stand firm.”
Uncover the Root Issues of the Heart…
“I was going to CR, using accountability groups, content filters on my devices, etc. You name it, I was doing it. However, I had a friend who had worked with Kolton so I decided to go for it. How thankful I am that I did! Kolton does a great job at guiding and preparing you for lasting recovery, helping uncover the root issues of the heart, and building a close knit community to take accountability to the next level.”
Freedom Through Reclaimed…
“I am so happy I made the choice to invest in myself and work with Kolton. Through Reclaimed I not only found how to have freedom from porn, but also how to address the deep underlying issues. I loved how we took the time to shift our mindset and learn who we truly are in Christ. The deeper heart focused work coupled with practical tips, ideas, and strategies was life changing.”
Please, Give This Experience a Try…
“Trust me when I say that I had tried thing after thing, group after group, prayer after prayer, and I could never seem to remove this from my life. But in my work with Kolton we went way deeper than just talking about the issue, we talk about the desires of our heart, we talk about our past and history of our lives, we talk about the science, and we holistically look to find solutions for our personal selves and our peers in the group. We go DEEP. Please give this experience a try. You will not regret it. I could not thank reclaimed, the main coach/mentor Kolton, and my “reforging” partner enough for helping me through this struggle and collectively conquering it together.”
God is Doing Something Amazing…
“I highly recommend this for anyone who is sick and tired of living in a cycle of sin, shame, repentance, and feeling like you are not living out God’s plan for your life. This was the place I found myself for 10+ years. I had head knowledge that God loved me, but I could never accept it in my hear because I kept sinning with pornography. And I carried this guilt and insecurity into my marriage, around my kids, and at work. After seeing two therapists, joining accountability groups, installing software on all my devices, I still could not break free from my unwanted porn habit. Nothing seemed to work, and I finally reached a point where I had to decide if I was willing to keep fighting or give up. At that time a friend of mine was telling me about Reclaimed and how he thought it might finally be the opportunity for me to draw a line in the sand. I did have my doubts at first, especially around the financial investment. I had already spent thousands of dollars trying to beat this but to no avail. However, after researching other programs, I realized that it was worth the money because of the personalized coaching you receive in addition to the opportunity to join a community of men who are journeying together. Working together with Kolton was exactly what I needed. I was able to slow down and be curious about how the porn habit developed. I realized that my struggle was not all my fault, and that my heart was turning to porn for a reason. After completing this journey with Kolton my spiritual life is completely revitalized. I am connecting with Jesus daily and learning to live in my identity as a son of God. My marriage, while not perfect, has really changed for the better. Before Reclaimed, when we struggled with a lack of intimacy, I would carry resentment and take things into my own hands. Now I realize she is on her own journey, and that through prayer, God CAN work miracles. My advice for anyone jumping into this: just do it! God is doing something amazing through Reclaimed.”
This Work Has Changed My Life…
“As someone who has participated in ineffective recovery courses in the past, I came across Reclaimed with a dose of skepticism and doubt about what would actually change in my life “this time around.” Maybe, reading this review, this is where you are too. Despite those doubts, I decided to give working with Kolton a shot based off the testimonies of a few close friends of mine. Basically, what this offered me from week 1 was a new, redeemed mindset. The nature of sexual sin often had me looking over my shoulder, regretting my actions of yesterday, but, by focusing on breaking down lies that told myself about my self-worth and building on the actual truth of the gospel, Reclaimed helped me to look forward with a new perspective. For the first time in a long time, I can say that I’m genuinely excited about moving my life forward and getting after some of my goals.”
An Effective Strategy for Redeeming Brokeness…
“Reclaimed offers an effective strategy to help men redeem their brokenness and restore their God-given purpose. The personal coaching, action-oriented steps, and healthy accountability are a great balance to help me stay focused on Jesus and be confident in my future.”
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